It’s possible to start on a journey with a destination in mind and end up in a totally different place.  Many of us have had our lives all planned out but because of the way that life works we have ended up somewhere different.  Things not going as  planned can sometimes leave us feeling frustrated, confused, and hurt. Sometimes when this happens we are left questioning everything that we thought to be true. Sometimes the way  things begin are not the way that they finish.  Detours arise which cause us to change our course or adopt a new way of life or philosophy. We should plan for hiccups on our journey and give ourselves and others room to evolve, develop and change. You don’t have to become a prisoner to your past or your plan A and you don’t have to be held hostage by someone who does not accept your evolution!