A thread that I read about earlier inspired today’s post.  In the world of dating there are rules; what you should do on a first date, how much is too much to spend, who picks up the bill, literally tons of them. I believe however there are some things that are simply a no no! Dating is typically a step in the direction of courting and courting marriage and along the way there are just certain things that should not be done.  An example of a rule that is broken time and time again is the whole sleeping with a person on the first date controversy. Is it a wise thing?  Some say yes its 2011 and its perfectly fine; others say absolutely not if you give away something that is supposedly precious to you that quick there is no way you will be respected. Another example that I want to give is expecting money from a person or them footing the bill for major purchases or expenses. I am rather old fashioned and think that these are things you should expect from people in a covenant relationship while others think its perfectly okay to expect someone you are not joined with to make it rain dollars on you? What’s your opinion? Does membership have its privileges or should everything be open whether you are dating, courting or married?