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From the time that we are small children well into adulthood people think they have us all figured out. Some individuals can tell you exactly who you are based on their perception of you. They may not have any facts but they know what they are talking about, this is especially true when you add in social media. It’s also challenging for family and friends to see us outside of their boxes. We’ve all seen or experienced family and friends claiming that they were totally surprised when an individual engaged in a certain type of behavior. We’ve heard the stories of the husbands and wives who claim that they lived in houses with strangers for years when in actuality they never got to know a person. Some of us might have experienced others tell us who we are only to respond “no that’s not me it’s who you made me to be.” When we have been given personas that we don’t agree with we need to take the brush out of the persons hand and begin to paint ourselves so that they can get an accurate portrait of who we really are. That’s our 2 cents for the day. Follow us on all social media at @MrOpenyonated.
Who says everyone can’t win? I remember back in the day when crews were coming out and one would blow up then they would make the way for other acts to have their turn. If one ate everyone was eating until the next person popped off. Some of us are so full of ourselves, so full of our talent that you can’t tell us anything. Everyone wants the marquee, everyone wants their name in lights bump the rest of the crew. No one wants to play team ,no one wants to uplift the first person out of the gate which is why it is so hard for everyone to win. Who is in your crew that has the most marketability & talent? Surround that person ,build that person up so that they can lead the way and open the doors then prepare the next person and duplicate. Sounds simple doesn’t it? In theory it is but some of us are so jealous of each other so afraid of someone being bigger than us that we just can’t bring ourselves to do it. So are all the crabs in the barrel just gonna die because they are constantly pulling each other down? It’s time to start putting aside our egos and truly building. Is everyone gonna keep faking it or are people going to bind together so that they all can make it?
Just had a thought, sometimes it seems we put more responsibility on law enforcement and government officials to keep our immediate neighborhoods safe. Many of us knowingly ignore those who are participating in criminal activity but expect someone else to do something about it. At what point do we take responsibility for our own communities? Have you taken a look around your community lately and observed who there is actually doing anything to make it better? Are you one of the people involved in making it better or are you just locked into your house saying how horrible things are? Are we still waiting on someone who does not live in our communities to ride in and save us? If we don’t show any interest in changing our communities why would anyone else? Tackling problems of this nature isn’t easy and can sometimes be dangerous but if we want better places to live aren’t some of us going to have to do something? We know that there are those who live among us that are wreaking havoc but why do we continue to let them do so? Do the people who want to destroy outnumber the people who want to live in peace or is that just an illusion reinforced by what we are taking in via the media? If we want true transformation in our communities we are going to have to be the ones of the frontlines not the president, the mayor or the police.
Most of the messages that we hear in music are pretty much the same, it’s like a broken record everyone is talking about the same thing which is why I was pleasantly surprised with the Abnormal mixtape. Once upon a time ago hip hop had a message, it made you think but it was replaced by tales of selling dope, anthems of girls shaking their asses and how many named brand clothes a person was wearing. Kells brings us hip hop that makes you stop and say hmmmm. It’s motivational music and it makes you think. I popped the cd in on my commute to class after a long day and a few trials and it lifted my spirits hip hop rarely does that anymore. This is the type of music that we need to bring back especially in the climate that exists in many of our inner cities. The content is not the only good thing about the cd, Kells flows well over the beats. I’ve had the opportunity to see him perform on many occasions and his in person persona matches his product. In the hip hop arena most acts tend to be a bit arrogant but you won’t experience that with Kells he is a down to earth guy. The cd has a recurring theme of empowerment, trust and faith in a higher power to be successful. My favorites are Poem Cry, and Manifestation. It’s definitely worth the purchase so make sure that you grab a copy for yourself and someone you want to uplift. His official album release is Thursday April 14th at Poetic Thoughts Thursdays 5840 West Madison in Chicago at 7pm. Keep up with Kells on Facebook at Markell Kells Thompson and IG at KellsTheArtist.
There is a saying that goes “Teamwork Makes the Dream work.” When the wrong mixture of people are together the dream can become a full blown nightmare. While we don’t want to be surrounded by a team of yes people we also don’t want a team of people who are constantly at odd with each other. It’s important that team members be in sync with each other so that they can achieve their goals. When everyone on the team has a different focus and agenda it can easily turn out to be a disaster. One of the most important components of a successful team is making sure that the line of communication are open. The lack of communication is often the root cause of problems on teams. In addition even though teams exist it’s equally important that individual needs are met, everyone must be getting something out of the effort. Whenever there is a superstar and everyone is not shining there is always an opportunity for jealously to step in. Teams can be wonderful as long as everyone is playing their part. Whenever the weight of the load is not evenly distributed among team members problems arise and members may feel like they are doing more than the other and not being compensated based on what they are putting in. Many of us have had the opportunity to work in team settings whether it was for a school assignment, or some other kind of effort. What are some of the things that made your experience good or bad? Share some of your experiences with us. Follow us on all social media at @MrOpenyonated and like our Facebook page! https://www.facebook.com/Mr.Openyonated/?fref=ts
We are creatures of routine. Doing the same thing at the same time with the same people on the same days makes life easier for most people. Typically when you ask people to disrupt their pattern problems arise. Why is it that some people are so resistant to change? Why don’t people want to venture out of their normal routines? There could be a multitude of reasons why we don’t like to change but change is very necessary to stay on top of what is going on around us. Of course there are a few things that never change like the rising and setting of the sun, the seasons, etc but, change is constant. When we fail to embrace change when it’s necessary we can make things harder on ourselves. When someone insists on spending a significant amount of time with people who have shown that they mean them no good they are damaging themselves because they don’t want to change. When a person refuses to change their diet and physical activity even though it has been identified as the root cause of their health problems they are damaging themselves. If we refuse to change when it’s necessary we are taking part in self sabotaging behavior. Initially change can be hard but in the final analysis it’s definitely worth it. Identify some areas that change would benefit you, put a plan together, find some accountability partners and get on the road to a new you. That’ our 2 cents on the matter. Follow us on all social media at @MrOpenyonated.
We live in a world where it’s normal to make GRAND gestures. Nowadays companies are even inventing holidays to keep the cash flowing but, you don’t have to put on a BIG production to let someone know how you feel about them or to celebrate a special day. We typically wait until the holidays to give people tokens of love and let them know that they are being thought about. You really don’t have to wait until someone’s birthday, anniversary to let them know how special they are to you. You don’t have to wait until Christmas to give someone a gift, you can do it anytime you want. In addition you don’t have to spend tons of money, small things and gestures say a lot and can pack a BIG punch. Washing someones car, doing their laundry, cleaning their home, doing yard work, etc are small underrated things you can do to show people you are thinking about them. There are also very inexpensive items that you can pick up from local vendors that are very moderately priced that people will appreciate. Next time you’re thinking about breaking the bank to show someone how special they are or to celebrate a special day, think about how you can make it more intimate and meaningful by going smaller. That’s our 2 cents for today. Follow us on all social media at @MrOpenyonated and like our Facebook page! https://www.facebook.com/Mr.Openyonated/
We live in a world of busy people, countless numbers of people are multi- tasking everyday in an effort to get ahead. I personally am always on the go, running here, there and everywhere. We can become so busy simply doing something that the something that we are busy doing is not always getting us to the next level. For example, I attend a lot of local events gathering information to blog about, getting the word out about cool people and things but I had to ask myself “does being everywhere really do anything for my company?” Does my activity equal to productivity, are my numbers growing? Is my brand more recognizable ? Taking a good look at your activity and the results it gives is crucial to success. We often mistake being busy as growth but sometimes it’s just being busy. I encourage others to take a look at what they are doing and if it is actually giving the desired results. That’s my 2 cents on the matter. Follow us on all social media at @MrOpenyonated and like our Facebook page. https://www.facebook.com/Mr.Openyonated/?fref=ts